Last night I had Gotten so upset at WS.She was suppose to take care of the kids insurance before she left but it all got screwed up and I found out that we didn't have any at all. She pays for the insurance through her work. I am self employed. I called her to talk about it and she was really upset about it and she had just found out also. We had a good conversation, the first in 2 weeks, seems like 2 month, I even told her it seemed like 2 months and she agreed. I think she is seeing some daylight into what she did and setting up house with a guy she barely knew and not divorced also isn't what she dreamed about. I hope and think it won't work. I am using some of the POJA and I think it worked. I would fly up to NY right now To get her if I thought she would come back but that's the problem. I have to wait for her to make that decision. That's the hard part! I don't know if I can wait 6 months, I'll have to try. Should I trust her? She want's to fly back Sunday to see the kids for a week. She wants the kids to stay with her for the week. Is she still in her crazy state of mind??? Would she take my little boy? He is 3 years old. My daughter is my Step daughter and she is My wifes and she is 7 years old. Should I let her do this? She is not a violent person or drug addict. I know that this guy she is with is only filling a need I haven't been giving to her and I also know that I have those other needs that she needs also that he will not give her. He hasn't divorced his wife yet either. I think he is going to get a big surprise. He is on the road to destruction and that bulldozer is just cranking up. The problem with this whole thing is that I still love my wife after all the terrible things she has done and have educated myself to find out what I have not done in our relationship. I can handle what I know, but I can't handle what I don't know.

Lost,
I know how you feel. My situation is very similar to your's. I can't offer much advice other than what I already think you are doing...reading this website, books, and plan Aing. I just wanted to let you know that there is someone out there in a similar position that you are in. Let's lift our heads high, and pray that everything will be OK. All will work out for the good. And remember, Ask and ye shall receive. God Bless!

Lost,<p>It sounds like your wife may have a mental disorder like Bi-Polar (aka Manic Depressive), The family history and multiple marraiges sounds like it could be. You might want to suggest that she sees a psychiatrists.