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Perfect Divorce - but I'm still being shafted #719415 01/17/02 07:59 PM
Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 10 B back2gether Junior Member
back2gether Junior Member B Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 10	My divorce is perfect. She did everything to make things as comfortable as possible for me and the kids.<p>She comes over alot and we see each other often. I just want to get frisky with her. Is that too much to ask?<p>I could do everything, times 10, that the texts suggest about the emotional needs. I can withhold all contact, and hurt the kids, nothing happens. I can overload the love points in the love bank. And I won't be able to withdraw a penny in the sex area from her. Nothing works.<p>I see all kinds of other women and I am thouroughly convinced that I can attract and satisfy ladies. It's not like I'm insensitive or do not know how to bring about the right conditions and moods.<p>Any suggestions?

Re: Perfect Divorce - but I'm still being shafted #719416 01/18/02 08:48 AM
Joined: Apr 1999 Posts: 8,016 C Chris -CA123 Member
Chris -CA123 Member C Joined: Apr 1999 Posts: 8,016	I just want to get frisky with her. Is that too much to ask? I give up. Is this a trick question? Yes it is too much to ask.<p>I could do everything, times 10, that the texts suggest about the emotional needs. If she does not want you to fulfill her emotional needs, you won't.<p>I can withhold all contact, and hurt the kids, You don't withhold contact from the children, just your spouse/ex.<p>I can overload the love points in the love bank. You can but you obviously haven't.<p>And I won't be able to withdraw a penny in the sex area from her. ???<p>Nothing works. What have you tried & for how long?<p>I see all kinds of other women and I am thouroughly convinced that I can attract and satisfy ladies. It's not like I'm insensitive or do not know how to bring about the right conditions and moods. Wow, you are a stud.<p>Any suggestions? Tell your story.<p>Why are you divorced? How long were you married. How old are the children? Are they all yours (with your ex)?

Re: Perfect Divorce - but I'm still being shafted #719417 01/18/02 05:12 PM
Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 10 B back2gether Junior Member
back2gether Junior Member B Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 10	om Affection om Sexual Fulfillment me Conversation om Recreational Companionship om Honesty and Openness ni Physical Attractiveness me Financial Support me Domestic Support me Family Commitment om Admiration <p>ni - not important to her<p>As you can see, I get all the responsibility and family affairs. And I'm great at conversation. At least I get that impression with women. That's my forte. The om is a no show in that arena.

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