D-Day with Judge is Tues, STBX OW Husband called she wouldnt let him see kids, they were doing OK filing with same lawyer, called me wanting to know could his lawyer talk to mine, tried to get on-line thur NFCU to check my statements, check book is way too low needed to make sure what checks were in, couldnt get in, password is changed, account in STBX name, I didnt want to change banks because Navy Retirement is direct deposit thur it, called him got his new phone # were his MOW works, H said its his account & wouldnt change it back we are still married & its still his account, H has a bank account, H is now asking that if I sell the house anytime after D he gets half, H lives with OW in a house his parents gave him free & clear the value almost double what ours is worth, we still owe 13 1/2 yrs on it, OW is getting her house too. H is going to tell the judge that he is just renting, does anyone know if you have to claim rent money as extra income on your taxes & if so who would you contact, sorry if this sounds nasty but if H parents do lie they should pay for it. H still wont give up son's College money CDS, got credit report on him, seems he has a new credit card & when H was trying to make our M work he was applying for Credit thur other banks. H told me he is telling people that I date OW Husband, told h that 1st Im still married til D, next I dont date anyone my son's age. telling everyone at his new job that I just kicked him out for no reason, ask him about rumor about engaged & yes he is going to get married after our D & has been living with & dating MOW, Im sure that wont come out on Tues. Just when you think its almost over & everything dies down this, I will be so glad when Im out of this mess, H can have her but Im not letting him try to control us anymore.
m-17yrs
D-tues
C-12,28,6yr GD
MOW-10yrs
D-pending
C-small kids