I left out abit of information. My H has been off the heroin since I found out. The biggest problem is the finacial situation. Money cannot be talked about or I get blamed for the debt. I don't work because I'm in school trying to better myself. My H acts like it's my fault that he did heroin. While he was in detox I stood by him, supporting him. Helping him as much as I could. I wasn't expecting to be blamed for his drug use. There is so much resentment on my part. I have loved this man, trusted him and he let me down. I feel worthless. I feel like I made my H this way.