H has now changed what we agreed, H was to give me & my son the house with me paying the payments, H parents gave him a small farm free & clear but not put in his name yet which H is saying he rents, now he wants his name to stay on the deed if sold H wants half, found out later this is what MOW H is doing to her, joint custody of our son, NO WAY, son who is almost 13 is now wanting to break all contact with dad after hearing what he wants, H wants regular weekend time with son, 10-6-2001 H agree with our son's wish of just sundays only. H cut the visa account off. Changed the password to NFCU so I cant see the checking account Im using on-line. H will be investigated soon, while a police office H was given a wallet that was found with $128 in it, he threw the wallet away & kept the money, the lady had a police report done thought it was stolen by another man, not only was he a liar but now this. I just hope it doesnt hurt our son when he starts to hear how low his dad went.
m-17yrs
d-3-18-2002
c-12yr, 28, 7 grd.
MOW-m 10yrs.
D-pending
c-small boys

What can I say - it's an addiciton, and addicts will do crazy things. Unfortunately when adults have addictions, they can hurt alot more people and cause alot more destruction. <p>Keep to the high road and all of WH's actions will shine through bright and clear. <p>It is really sad that the children see the ugly side of the WH as well. Not ver ygood role models right now. But we love the person, not the acts, and at one time the WH's were sane, and we just have to remind the kids of that.<p>Hang in there. Maybe a dose of reality will help your WH realize the consequences of his actions. If not, keep strong. You'll come out fine. K