Hi,<p>I saw your post on the thinker thread. No, please do not think that the comments there are the norm here.............far from it.<p>You say you are a very new member.....welcome and I hope you can use the information here to your best advantage. Unfortunately for SNL and thinker it has gone way beyond anything MB can do, and that is why we are all telling THAT particular couple that enough is enough. From now on, for both of them, staying together is a form of self-imposed torture.<p>We, as a group, are here to help SAVE marriages, and for the most part, will try to be helpful and positive to anyone who posts. I hope that particular thread doesn't put you off this site.........it is a wonderful place, with many, many wonderful people who understand.<p>Again welcome,<p>Love and light,<p>Jacky