Just this past week my wife and I separated.. We've been married 10yrs had 4 children together.. been through the death of one of those 4 children. I took her back and forgave her after I walked in on her with another man. These last 2 happened 2 years ago.<p>I don't want to be separated and I don't even want a divorce cause I'm still in love with her. I've tried to talk to her and she tells me she's not "In Love" with me anymore, but that she does love me. She's told me she can't stand being around me and sometimes when I call she gets sick to her stomach. She told me that she has been unhappy for awhile and now that I've eben gone from the house for a week shes happy again. She also said she tried to fix things with me when she started feeling this way, but I wouldn't listen and now she says she's beyond working things out. I even asked her to give me time to work on things but she won't promise me anything.<p>I'm still so deeply in love with her it hurts. I've told her I could change and done everything I could to show we could work it out, but nothings working. I just wish I could get her to give me one more chance cause without me there, there is no one there who will talk to her for my benefit. <p>I'm so scared, lonely, lost, depressed and I have no one now. Can someone please give me some ideas on how to get her back.<p>Hopelessly Lost

be patient, don't try to push her and do all the plan A stuff on this site. Work on yourself and let her see the changes