I am so grateful for your response to my post. I will pray very hard for the restoration of your marriage. If you want some Christian insite (i don't know your religous background) there is a wonderful website that tells how the bible views marriage and how people that have stood for their marriage have had their spouse come home. The address is
www.covenantkeepers.com I understand what you are saying about fighting for my husband. How do these things turn good men into the total opposite of who they are? He was here last night, I got into a panic and hounded him. I know, bad move. He unloaded all of his stuff from the Toyota and said Sunday he would either reload the truck or put everything away. He said he is seriously considering coming home. I unpacked everything, I couldn't bear to see it sitting in a pile in the garage. He said that he loved me and kissed me before he left. He wants his friendship with her and to keep it platonic. I don't think that is right or will halp us in anyway, I is bad enough he is her Sergeant. We can see what is so wrong, I wonder why our husbands, who promised to care and love us for life, can't see it? I will pray that your wounded and bleeding heart will be soothed and that your husband would be touched and come home to his wife, realizing the one he is with is a counterfiet. If you would like to contact me my e-mail is gurlzhappy@msn.com I would love to share the info that I have. In response to couples getting it together this late in the game, I have read of many accounts. God Bless, you. Take care. Melina