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#720325 01/31/02 05:44 PM
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I am new here. H moved out in Sept a week and a half after 25th anniv. Right in with OW whom I found out he was involved with for many months through his job. H filed for D. Left me financially devestated, recovering financially now and emotionally. Seen H today. H has consisitently and continues to deny that he is involved with OW. Says he just rents from her. I confronted him about Viagra still denies. Says there is nobody else. I can't picture my life without him, yet I don't feel I could possibly take him back. Do couples even reconcile this late in the game? How do these affair ususally end that are rushed into? I know he only met her 9 months before he moved out, and they met at work.

#720326 02/01/02 07:38 AM
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lieing and dening is what they seem to do best my exw has been with OM almost a year and still denies she left me for him, not only to me but to everyone else. The affair will die a natural death but I really don't know how long it takes, i read somewhere 6 months to 2 years, just try and take care of yourself

#720327 02/01/02 11:47 PM
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Thank you. How are you doing now? Do you have children? How long were you married?

#720328 02/02/02 07:36 PM
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I am so grateful for your response to my post. I will pray very hard for the restoration of your marriage. If you want some Christian insite (i don't know your religous background) there is a wonderful website that tells how the bible views marriage and how people that have stood for their marriage have had their spouse come home. The address is www.covenantkeepers.com I understand what you are saying about fighting for my husband. How do these things turn good men into the total opposite of who they are? He was here last night, I got into a panic and hounded him. I know, bad move. He unloaded all of his stuff from the Toyota and said Sunday he would either reload the truck or put everything away. He said he is seriously considering coming home. I unpacked everything, I couldn't bear to see it sitting in a pile in the garage. He said that he loved me and kissed me before he left. He wants his friendship with her and to keep it platonic. I don't think that is right or will halp us in anyway, I is bad enough he is her Sergeant. We can see what is so wrong, I wonder why our husbands, who promised to care and love us for life, can't see it? I will pray that your wounded and bleeding heart will be soothed and that your husband would be touched and come home to his wife, realizing the one he is with is a counterfiet. If you would like to contact me my e-mail is gurlzhappy@msn.com I would love to share the info that I have. In response to couples getting it together this late in the game, I have read of many accounts. God Bless, you. Take care. Melina


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