[img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] Hi all!!!
It has been awhile since I have checked in or replied to anyone. I hope all is well with everyone...<p>Let's see as for me.. Hmmmmmm where do I start..<p>My son's father has not seen him for a while, XH is contemplating signing off all parental rights to our son. At this point I will not stop him if that is really what he wants to do. It boils down to he does not want to pay support. Our hearing was finally in the beginning of January and he is to pay $250. a month that is it.
I'm sure most of you know the deal with the alchol with the ex. Most recently he had a alchol induced seizure in which he was told he could not drink anymore. Well when ever we do talk which is not often it always ends up with he says "what are you trying to make me drink again". That isn't very nice but, he is never nice so that is no big shocker for me.
I called on the 31st to say Happy Birthday to my stepson who is with the ex and he refused to let me or our son talk to him. He said he rather not have any contact with me or my son.
I think I can handle that but, I don't think it is fair to the kids. I did tell him if this is what he wanted then he needs to do it now. Not a few years down the road or even next year. Our son is 4. We shall see what happens. I never know with him.<p>On to bigger and better things.
I met a wonderful person. We decided to live together. (against some people's better judgement) Some of it had to do with money. We were always together and it didn't make much sense paying for two places. + we are buying a house together. Well you know I have a son and so does he they are 6 months apart. They do great together. A little bicker here and there.
My better half would like more children. Well my tubes were tied when I had my son but that is not a problem they can be untied. Talked to an OB and it cost a lot of money. (our down payment on the house).. So we shall see where that goes. My father absolutly loves him. My dad's approvel means alot since he never approved of the other one's... <p>Just wanted to update all of you......
Hope everyone's New Year started off good..<p>Best to all
Janet