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#720742 02/05/02 05:05 PM
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i have an odd husband. he doesn't want a divorce (so he says) and he doesn't want any intimacy but he does want time to do his own thing. always his own thing. so i have learned to do my own thing. and i have been out late, all night sometimes, met people, men, and he never cares. the husband never asks where i have been, what i have done, who i was with, etc. i don't mean i want him to attack me every time i go somewhere but HE NEVER asks anything. very into his own hobbies, hunting and taxidermy. no girls or porn. which i am greatful for. we don't do anything together and now he has quit drinking but it seems to have separated us more. is there a happy medium? if he's drinking he is very verbally abusive, if he is not, he is very nonexistent. i think he just doesn't like me? any suggestions? Thanks.

#720743 02/05/02 06:29 PM
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Your marriage sounds like ours was back in 1994 which led to his affair. All I can say is learn about you. Get counseling. Find out what you can and can not live with. Here is a good site that talks about passive Agressive behavior. Sounds like your Husband is passive aggressive. Learn all you can about it if he fits the mold so you can learn how to difuse it. <p>http://www.passiveaggressive.homestead.com/PATraits.html<p>Hope this helps.


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