Thank you so much for answering me. He is not with anyone else that I know of. He says he is not and that a relationship with someone else is the last thing he needs. He says he loves and misses all of us, but just cant come home to have the same thing happen and hurt us all again. I dont know any way to prove to him it wont happen except that he has to come home and see. I just thought someone might have an idea. I appriciate you caring it is nice to talk with someone who understands......Tami