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I feel so empty right now. Husband still feels the same way...does not want our marriage. I can not get out of crying today. Why? I told him it was time to leave last night. So, he will probably be leaving tonight or tom night. We have 2 children together and I have 2 other children he has raised for the last 15 years. I do not want this divorce. I don't know how I am going to do this. I have not been alone in 15 years. Oh, this roller coaster ride hurts. Thanks for listening.
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whatcanido,<p>It is now time to allow God to intervene. I don't know if you have a relationship with God or not. If you do, you need to pray like you never have BEFORE. You should pray without ceasing. I would also recommend you being as nice as you can towards him and allow him to be the butthole.
Tell him you don't want the marriage to end, tell him how you feel but do it tactfully. I will be praying for you too.
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Joined: Nov 2001
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I feel your pain and understand it, I am here to tell you it will pass and you will go on,and make a life for your children. It hurts and it sucks that people have to be so cruel, but you can choose to be a victim or choose to learn and triumph from it.<p>When you blame others for your problems, you give up your ability to solve them. Do you want to do that? <p>No matter who has done what, your best strategy is to take responsibility for it. Though it may be their fault, it's your life. Don't depend on those who have hurt you to help you, Forget who is to blame and focus on what is to be done.<p>Don't cry over someone who won't cry over you<p>Be brave !
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Please tell us more of your story.<p>Have you read the information on the MB site? Have you read His Needs/Her Needs? SAA (Surviving an Affair)?<p>Have you been in Plan A? Do you have a support system? Friends, family, counselor, priest or minister, God?<p>Having one party moving out is a big step. <p>What is your situation? Do you want to try to save your marriage and have you tried the above.<p>There is lots of information to read and try before giving up. <p>Keep us informed. K
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