for those of who have read my story,under divorcing divorced. i have done all i can, can't keep my head above water no longer. my (H) said he would call a councler only i think because i keep pressing the issuse. so he called 1 here in our town and the minster never did call back, i ask him if he left a message for him to call back and he said yes. [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] so i told my (H) to call some more counclers but he hasen't. i a'm fed up he does not want to admit that he is the cause of our marrige coming to a end. i told him untill he decides that he is the problem then we have no marrige. ok grant it i know i have made many mistakes but geesh all this started because of his out and out lies. he has destroyed me ripped out my heart for the last time. why should i do all the work? [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] it's over i refuse to keep trying any more. [img]images/icons/mad.gif" border="0[/img]

Have you tried Plan B?