h told me he has been saving all my letters to marriage builders, great I hope he reads all of them & maybe he will finially see what he has done to me & our family, no such luck he is mad because I think of him as a bad husband? I love the man I was married to but not this new person who you have become. Im sorry you dont like the new me, but you made me into this new person I am today, I love the new independent me, the hurt is fading, when I look at you I dont feel hate or love its just nothing. Ive got a great 12yr old son to care for & Im doing the best I can he comes first in my life no man will ever come before him. You ask why didnt I leave you years ago if things were so bad, its because I loved you & married you for better or worst, I just couldnt make room for this MOW into our life. Our son who will be 13 in apr wants to ask the judge not to set dates to make him see his dad, instead he wants to see him on his own time, H told me he will make him see him, you need to give our son time to heal, he knows what our life was like before your MOW came into our lives. Try joining Marriage Builders it will help you with your angry & with your relationship with your soon to be spouse.
M-17 1/2yrs
D-3-18-02
C-12,28. gd 7
MOW-M-10 yrs
D-apr 2002
C-4,8