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<BR>My husband and I have been <BR>together for 13 years and <BR>yesterday out of the blue, he <BR>told me he is not happy and loves <BR>me but, is not in love with <BR>me..Well, to say the least, I am <BR>completely devestated!..I never <BR>would of thought that this would <BR>happen. I asked him if we could <BR>go and talk to someone and get <BR>help, and he said that he doesn't <BR>think that will change anything. <BR>We have a 6 year old son who is <BR>very,very close with his daddy <BR>and going to be totally <BR>heartbroken. I feel like my heart <BR>has been torn into shreds. He <BR>says he is going to stay here <BR>with us ntil he saves enough <BR>money to get his own place. What <BR>can I do??? I want to save my <BR>marriage and do everything I can <BR>to make him see that this is a <BR>big mistake. I think alot of it <BR>is depression on his part. <BR>Please, any suggestions would <BR>help. I am just so heartbroken <BR>all I do is cry. I haven't eaten <BR>anything since he told me <BR>yesterday and I am having sharp <BR>pains in my chest. <BR>Thanks
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--<p>[This message has been edited by MaryBB (edited June 23, 2000).]
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Dear Tucci,<BR>Boy have I heard that one!<BR>My H and I have been together total 15,Married 11. In our situation after years and years of day to day things we lost sight of eachother.We forgot to take care of eachother.He stoped meeting my needs a long time ago and after years of this I finally stoped meeting his.(sex)and showing that I even care.It all blew up when he stoped touching me.(only time he touched me was when he was horny.)It all blew up and I asked him what was going on? He told me the same thing.<BR>As of a couple of weeks ago he was going to move out get a divorce when he got the money.<BR>I have been a basket-case.<BR>This really started in Nov,now today I know that he loves me and that we are taking one day at a time.Talk,Talk,Talk. Show him the love and care.If he will let you take charge and "jump his bones" let him know that you care for him and that you want to met his needs.The one thing I have learned is that when there is something that needs to be done and you don't want to, is the time you MUST DO IT!!!<BR>Hope that this gives you some insight,hang in there.<BR>E-mail me if you need to talk.<BR>gsmith2@fayar.net.<BR>BIG HUG!!!<BR>Gina Smith\won't give up hope.<BR>
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