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#721808 02/25/02 11:29 AM
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It looks like divorce is inevitable. Are there any specific steps to keep strife at a minimum. He doesn't want it, but there is nothing left, after 22yrs of marriage and nine months of counseling, I have to move on. Will God forgive me? This is very painful and confusing...

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Please also check out this website as it has some very useful tips:<p> http://www.divorceasfriends.com/index.htm <p>Blessings to you,
Nicole

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Know that divorce is an adversarial process and as such, it's hardly ever peaceful.<p>Mediation is a softer approach, but if he doesn't want a divorce then be prepared for the worse.<p>Also, at least in the Catholic church, divorce is just a property issue - so whether or not we get divorced, there is still the annulment process to go through to disolve the marriage.<p>And, just a warning. My H is taking total advantage of me through the divorce process even though he said he wanted to save money and be nice - so just know that you have to look out for yourself.<p>K


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