Some how my post was deleted ?
my X is forcing my children into a situation that they are uncomfortable with and he doesn't seem to care what he is doing to them, either does the OW, I am afraid he is hurting them to get to me, because he knows he can't hurt me anymore,coming from an emotional, mental, and physically abusive family, I know what he is doing to them and what it feels like and it is killing me that he would do it, I have spent 14 years protecting them from every harm, and now he is causing it. We talk about it and He makes promises and says he understands why he shouln't be doing the things he does, but turns around and does it again ! Ahat can I do to protect my children from this pain, he said he knows he needs help, but doesn't get it, and everytime they leave with him they come home mentally and emotionally drained.
They are in counceling but it doesn't stop the hurt he is causing. What can I do ?