Hi All...<BR>My husband and I are back together. We have been living together again for about 2 weeks. Part of our problem was my lack of affection & romance. I really want to do (or give) my H something wonderful, different & fun for Valentines. I really need some suggestions from you guys out there. What do you like or what would you want? Know though, I will probably take all the credit for the idea <P>------------------<BR>Tash

I'd suggest a night (at a nice hotel or at home) of unbridled lust...well, it seems to get my H's attention...<BR>Sexy undies, potions, toys...I'm thinking of tying him up and teasing him for a while...

It sounds like Kam hit the nail on the head. I would suggest that you even go so far as to "kidnap" your husband from work in a limo, then take him off to a hotel. On the way, show him that you are wearing the sexiest lingerie that you could find. <P>I really appreciate hearing from a woman who wants to please her husband!<P>John

Well, to put it in a nutshell (so to speak):<P>If you asked 100 husbands what they'd like most from their wives on Valentine's Day, 75 would say oral sex.<P>The other 25 would be lying.

Sex has become a none issue since I moved back in. We've had fun with it ALL. So passionate sex on Valentines day would be like any other day I do like the limo idea. Do men like flowers, roses and the whole candy thing? It's sad that a women like me can be so unromantic & clueless. Keep the ideas coming PLEASE!<P>------------------<BR>Tash

one time I went and picked my H up in stockings garter belt and a trench coat. he liked it a lot.<BR>Lesa<P>------------------<BR>"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and<BR> lean not unto thine own understanding." -Proverbs 3:5<BR>Take care and God Bless.<P> lms20ish@jobe.net

Tash<BR>I don't think you understand the male mind. Even though sex with your husband may be something you do every day, to him it is nothing less than your enthusiastic appreciation of him as man and a husband. The difference is that now every day is like a day at Disneyland to a 5 year old. That is probably the only way I can describe it.<P>The garter belt and trenchcoat would be an absolutely wonderful idea. IF you could find a hotel with a private hot tub, it would be even better. <P>As to candy and flowers, probably not. i would suggest spike heels and fishnet stockings. This is what men truly think about most of the time. Believe it or not, we cannot get enough of this. <P>I just really admire you for doing this. I am in a situation where I will never be sexually satisfied because of my marital choice. <P>May the Lord Bless You and Keep YOu.<BR>John

I'm female...but I don't think men share our appreciation of flowers and heart-shaped candy boxes. <P>Doug's probably right.<P>I found some crotchless fishnet pantyhose in a local adult store. woohoo! They're a hit.<P>Listen to Doug and John.<P>What's the saying?--Women give sex for love; men give love for sex. Extremely generalized but there's some truth there in the genders' romantic differences.