After inviting his parents to stop by on their way home this weekend (I was really good, didn't tell them what was really going on, didn't badmouth the OW, talked nice hugged the inlaws because I love them...), me busting my butt to get the house halfway clean, cooking for him and doing the shopping as well as getting up at 5:30 in the morning to go to work, Mr. Personality waited long enough for his parents to leave, and then took off to go call the OW. So I get to stay up and get the kids taken care of while he's of calling the bimbo. Should I throw his clothes in the front yard and tell him to sleep in his car he's so in love with?

What a [censored]! I don't know too much about your story, so giving advice would be a bad idea. But I'm good at bad ideas, so I'd at least let him know how it made you feel.<p>Elizabeth<p>man, what a [censored]! Thank you for making dinner and cleaning the house. I appreciate you from afar.

Aw tanks, Elizabeth. Sorry, I knew you guys would understand. There's not much story. He had suggested we had "earned" the right to see other people a few years ago, and I objected. We ahve 4 boys, 2 of which are over 18 now, so he's not totally broke paying child support. He has a friend who divorced his wife of 20 years and I suspect has been giving him advide about how to have his cake and eat it too. He threatened to divorce me a couple of years ago when I called him a name for coming home about 6 hours late without calling (this is standard behavior, he doesn't like me to know where he is.) He's been taking weekend trips every other weekend since August with differing stories about where he's going (went bike riding one weekend and forgot the bike! The kids picked up on that one right away.) The cleaners called me and told me they couldn't get my dress cleaned - it wasn't mine. A store clerk told me she'd talked to my husband the night before - he was supposed to be out of town. Checking account got opened under his name only. Money's been moving. Cell phone bills are being hidden. He goes out every night on some mission (I have to go get a bag of M&M's) and disappears for 2 hours. He had sex (it was not making love, never has been) with me and two weeks later told me he wanted a divorce and had just had sex with me to find out if he "still had any feelings for me". He won't admit the affair to anyone. Sat he all weekend and just totally lied to his parents. So lost in the fog he couldn't find that portion of his anatomy he's so proud of if he switched on the hallogen headlights! LOL Lots of stuff going on in here in between, but I'm really trying to keep it somewhat short. I'm still astounded that all our WS's are name [censored]! What a coinkydink!

When they are kidnapped by the aliens they are all nicknamed [censored]. It's like a mating ritual of the perverted and sick. They have a naming ceremony and everything. They figure it will be easier than remembering peoples real names because there is so many lies to keep straight they just don't have time. I think I need a hobby.<p>A two hour bag of M&M's huh? Neat. At least my [censored] was a bit more creative. He invented a bowling league that met on Friday nights, came home with stories of the guys and everything. One day I took the kids to go see him bowl, yeah, they never heard of him, and they have no Friday night league there. At least he always remembered to bring his bowling ball and shoes.<p>Oh well, [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] one of these days it's all gonna catch up with them. Meanwhile here we are suffering the concequences of their actions. Nice. <p>Tell that [censored] to go jump in a lake for me!<p>Elizabeth

I thought I had the only WH named [censored]!!!
Hang in there!! Hopefully we will get through this.....STRONGER!!!<p>Wife of a STBX [censored]! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

I guess I will join the crowd. I am soon to be a x-wife. WH posts here a lot. Didn't want to do Retrouvaille follow-up, didn't want to follow MB plans, said he would do it his way and no other way. <p>My WH is in the fogggg..... big time. Steve says he still is. H tells me he doesn't love me, just a caring love. You know I posted on the emotional needs about the BS and do you feel like you are getting dumped when your WS asks for a divorce.<p>My WH doesn't see what he has done here at this house. The kids know about his affair, one son read WH sexual e-mail that he was going to send to the OW, and it got sent to our sons printer. This is so sad, that all our kids, all of us here and all BS's kids have to see the actions of the parent that decided to have an affair. What an example they set for these kids. The WS literally throws there spouse out, and deals in the fantasy and lust of the OP.<p>Hey all [censored] - admit your mistakes and have a big red A engraved on your forehead! You are the ones who pulled your pants, panties down for the OP! You are the ones who screwed who! [img]images/icons/mad.gif" border="0[/img] As you can tell, I am having a bad day too, been crying for days. [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]