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She is so snowed by this other guy! She thinks that us being together is harmful for the children and that a divorce is the best solution. She won't even try to fix this though. I have forgiven her for the affair, and told her that we can save this marriage, but she contiues to say that she does not want to, however she knows I will not file and she has yet to also. Plus there are little things she does. She usually deletes all her emails once she's read them, but for some reason she has kept a hallmark ecard I sent her telling her I miss her. Plus as I said she has not "asked" for a divorce. I do know however that she is still seeing this other man and we are separated right now. She has the kids so I am utterly alone. This is killing me!!! How long do I wait or do I just give up
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Can only speak from my own experience and say- for as long as you can bear to- keep praying hoping and holding on. In MB terms for as long as you ahve deposits in your love bank. Jante
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