<BR>I hope im posting in the right spot for this question, my husband recently lost his father 6mths ago, I have been providing all the support I can. I have been reading about midlife crisis, and these topics seem to describe what my husband is going through. My question is this, has anyone else gone through this and survived...is there anything i can do to help the situation, and not hurt it further. He says hes lost confused, and just doesnt know what he wants out of life, he says he loves me, and our son, he just doesnt think things our right in his life. He seems to be closing down, all emotions. I asked if he wants to leave he says he cant. Im totally going nuts with this. Our marriage of 17yrs years has always been strong enough to survive just about everything. I need some hope, some suggestions, anything.<P>------------------<BR><BR>