Hi All
Beare with me this might be long. Yesterday I went out of town for a family get together, I took a friend with me, someone I haave been seeing awhile, On the way home we were traveling the interstate, there was a large object on the road, I swirved to miss it and lost control of my car, I hit the median wall at 65mph, my friend and I walked away with out a scratch, it was only by the grace of god that we are alive this morning and I am happy to be posting here today. the reason I am posting this, is I suddenly realized how important all the small things in life are and how precious my life and the life of my friend are. I realized that all the time and energy that I have invested this past year on my EXW and the OM all the pain and misery that I allowed myself to feel is not worth it, I could have been dead today but I am alive, and I see how important it is to enjoy what I have day by day , I can no longer hold on to the past, all I have is today and I almost didn't have that. so for all of you, I pray you just let go and love the ones you are with and make the best of every moment, let go of the past its not worth it, life is to short and can end at any moment. I always thought this only happens to others never me , now I have been changed forever, because I feel it was a wake up call and I was given a chance to start a new life and have that same chance everyday now

Jabber-<p>I am so glad you are okay. Your words of wisdom are so true. Good luck with everything!<p>Take care and God bless!<p>K

near death experiences kinda do that for ya, change yer perspective, maybe we should include such things in therapy...glad you are ok, been there, done that.

No kiddin'...<p>Thank GOD you are alive and well...