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Everyone pretty much knows my story. Married for almost a year and husband has an porn addiction and due to big fight I ask him to get out. He cam back a few days later to get the rest of things and I tried to talk to him. But he told me he was thru with me and the marriage. He left and it has been 3 weeks now. I have not heard a word from him outside of an apology for the porn addiction and an email that he has paid certain bills. His family is worried because they haven't heard from him either. They have called and emailed him and to no avail. <p>The sad part is he had this same problem in his first marriage and divorced her and regretted it.<p>I know for a fact he is not having an affair.<p>Please help!
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morton,<p>I am sorry he won't listen. You are right, he probably will regret his actions again. However, I think in time, you will be happy he's gone. <p>BTW, I do think he's having an affair with porn. It's not physical but it's still intervering with your marriage.<p>I'd say step back, take a deep breath and look at your marriage...Were you happy being married to him?<p>You may not be happy at this moment either, but as you get stronger, happiness will come. <p>Take care,<p>ANNA
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<p>[ March 20, 2002: Message edited by: newstartj ]</p>
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Anna2000 and Newstartj,<p>Thanks for your responses. I was just looking over the emails he sent me the day after he moved out and I found out about the porn. <p>He was apologizing and asking for forgiveness. He told me he didn't blame me if I wanting to move on because he had not been meeting my needs for a while. He said he has sinned by hiding the lust in his heart and he is sorry for lying to me.<p>After those emails which was 2 weeks ago, I never heard from him again. I have been basically ABANDONED.
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