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#723969 03/28/02 05:35 PM
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Hi,
I'm new here but I need advice on when is it better to Divorce than stick it out? She did the cheating thing, messed up my credit (joint cards/accounts), and general messed with my life/head.
I feel more like a sentry than a partner. I've basically set everything up so she can't hurt me again in every arena but emotionally but with the kids getting older (mid-late teens) I've been wondering why I should stay. <p> I feel compelled to stay because of the vows we took, because of the kids, because I'm scared of being alone.<p> When is it time to throw in the towel? I can make it work but why shouldn't I enjoy it rather than endure it?<p>Advice needed!

#723970 03/29/02 10:00 PM
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Not many ppl post on the weekend...so you may not get many replies..and this being Easter weekend
may not be anyone around..<p>But read up on the Plan A and other information on the sight the emotional needs and such...and try those things..


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