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I haven't seen any posts that seem to correlate to my situation so I am throwing this out as a new topic. What appears to be different in what I am going through is that neither I nor my spouse are trying to reconcile. Over the years we seemed to have less and less interest in each other. Now we have moved apart and are both interested in finding love elsewhere. Yet we continue to work together to raise our youngest child and all our finances, etc. are combined. We are very civil, but of course there are mixed feelings and a sense of loss. My biggest fear is that as we move into another relationship, attitudes could change for the worse. Has anyone gone through or know of a "friendly" divorce? Is it possible? Or does anger,jealousy and resentment always show up at some point?
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Hi, I don't have the answers, but I think this is exactly what my h wants. We are 3 weeks into our seperation and he's talking about an amicable divorce. That we have to remain friends for the sake of our 4 year old. I don't want the divorce, but if nothing is going to change his mind, then I might as well make it easy for me and my child. We've already sorta seperated bills, with me taking most. But our main arguement is going to be child-support and him paying it. So far he is $90.00 behind, according to me. And I sure could use it. Other than that, once we decide on the amount and HE files, then we'll have a pretty easy divorce.<p>I hope someone answers this thats been through it. I'd be really interested.
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