Haven't posted for awhile but I have to pipe in and tell everyone something...<p>I fell for a guy hard a couple of weeks ago, he was everything I was looking for BUT then I found out he is married...thanks to this sight and for the fact that my exh left me for OW.Yes, it was painfully hard and still is...for him also, we knew enough that we cannot see each other ever-unless he is divorced..the attraction was overwelming for both of us...BUT we did overcome it...we were able to recognize the signs of an affair...and we make sure we do not talk unless we have to -like a business matter - but that has also has come to an end.
Two days later a friend of his (who is also married) said he liked me alot also, I told him that I could never have an affair with someone because I know what its like for the shoe to be on the other foot...
I just want everyone to know that affairs can be stopped.........but now I know the pain in stopping them [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img]

Good for you, White Dove.<p>Just remember to protect yourself. You are your own best friend. You have a bevy of unmet needs screaming for attention, and the slightest interest in those unmet needs can set you in flight. <pun intended><p>Protect yourself!<p>Jo