In todays Arizona Republic:<p>It's okay to settle for Mr. OK
If there were only one perfect mate for each of us, the human species would be extinct, says Jefferson Hane Weaver, author of "What Are The Odds?" Imagine trying to find your soulmate in a pool of 3 billion men or even the 600 million who are 30 to 40 years old. Instead, he says, we find someone with whom we're compatible and comfortable, and the human race goes on.