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My husband just left for the second time 3 weeks ago. I had been handling my self really good this time, (last time i broke down). He hasnt filed or anything yet. But my anger is taking over. It seems that if I agree with everything that he says, hes fine. The minute i disagree, WHAM, the you know what hits the fan. I called him yesterday to apologize for some of the things i had said out of anger, and he said OK. But now what should I do? Should I just wait and hope he dosnt file, or what. Im so confused.
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Can you give us a little background on your situation such as how long you've been married etc.?<p>No matter what the situation, please know that we know what you're going through and wish you didn't have to go through so much pain. <p>Please read the info. on this website - especially about Plan A. Get your support system in place - friends, family, counselor, church group etc. Learn about husband's emotional needs and find out what love busters there are in your life and try to remove them. <p>Take things one day at a time and don't make any rash decisions. <p>We're here for you. K
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Ok, heres my story. We have been married for 4 years on June 6th. We have a 3 year old little girl, and we have already been separated once. He moved me in with him and now after 5 months of being together. He left again. We have the normal marital problems, but his self esteem is soooo low, that he has Never trusted me even though I have never cheated on him. He holds on to everything I have ever said or done wrong and always throws it up in my face. I spoke to him last night on the phone and he had been drinking and he was saying he didnt mean anything to anyone and that he was worthless, and even though i said he means the world to me , he says well you cant have me. He is a police officer and really in to his work. I am so confused, please pray for me!
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