Hi
I have been S 15 months, D has been delayed by at least 5 weeks. W is "sitting on the fence".
OM is now in the picture since September, (co-worker).
W says she can't come back because I may not want her back after all.
W is insecure about that and the "trust" thing.
W is still indecisive. Can anybody relate to their W being "confused and indecisive"?
I guess you call it "fog"?
OM makes W feel "safe". I am not sure how long I can go on. It is up to the individual on how long we can endure the waiting.
So how long can a WAS still be "confused and indecisive"? My W tells me she wishes "God can touch her head" to make her decide.
She tells me she doesn't want too mess me about anymore.
Is their anybody who has endured this amount of time where there has been OM involved and even after all this time reconciled, maybe 'cos W eventually found she missed you so much and wasn't after all happy with OM. She found that she made a mistake. Maybe it was too late by then and you moved on.
Scott<p>[ April 12, 2002: Message edited by: smileysmile ]</p>

Post this on Plan a or B or in Recovery over in the Infidelity area. You may have more luck than here in the divorce area.