Ive read where the Cheating spouse thinks the other person is so much better than the one they left and life will be great living in story book land. But then they wake up one day and see what they left & how it wasnt so bad, the quite family life, no outstanding bills, saving money each month, a child & wife who loves you for yourself not what you have. My X told me he didnt have any money I knew it was another lie, he did tell me to call his MOW husband & talk to her H. Just got off the phone with him, she was 2 payments behind on her new Dodge Durango, had to trade it in on a car, her house payments are almost twice as much as ours & is in bad rundown shape, 4 months behind on paying her charge card & some odd bills havent been paid. She has done this in the past & they dont have good credit. MOW works full time as LPN, & hasnt put out any money on her bills, guess she must be making my X pay them. X is the type that his bills must be paid before he eats, now I know why a 29 yr old woman with a great looking young husband who everyone who knows him says he is great wanted my 42yr old H. A friend of hers said all he did was tell her how much money he had. The only bad thing is he didnt have that much after the D, & took our sons CD's to help her with her bills. told her husband that I hope she takes him for every penny he has. Wonder what the ending to this story will be, it should read like this, he is broke & alone with no credit, & his only child who cant go to college later because Dad spend his college money on another man's wife, & still paying for the bills she ran up during their marriage. She is probaby with a younger man with more money or went back to her H because of the 3 small children who needs their Dad. I thank God for all the help he has given me to get thur this mess.
M-17 1/2 years
c-13yr. 28, 7 gr daughter
A-years
D-3-18-02
X-age 42, Mine-48 & proud of it.
MOW-M- 10 years
C- 3 small
MOW-29 years old
D-pending