My husband lied again. we just talked about things last night and him spending money. he said he was sorry and he will work on things. What does he do. Takes money out and doesn't even tell me. i found his atm reciept so I asked him what he did with the money. he doesn't even tell me. He says he doesn't know. I don't know what to do. He has a double life that I am not included in. Why does he have to lie all the time. I never feel I will be able to trust him because he continues to do it. How can i trust him again?