What can I do?? My old topic was: "Saving my marriage" I met with her parents and her last Wed. night. Her Dad didn't really want to see me, but I needed to get some things off my chest and so did he..Then I talked to my wife...She is so angry..I have never seen her like this...She was calling me every name in the book!! I know she was "venting" She is going through stages; first crying, then hurt and pain, and now angry! I met with a marriage counselor today..Cheryl told me that she wants to be with me but needs some time....How much time?? Her parents told me that she isn't really talking to them about anything! I told Cheryl that I wouldn't call her at all, that I'll leave her alone, but I'll keep the door open, for a little while..the counselor told me that she sounds clinically depressed, more than she is letting on..Counselor told me that I should send cards to her every day, telling her that I miss her and need her in my life and that I love her...Just short messages and not go into detail about what happened...We have never been unfaithful to each other or have had any physical abuse...I just can't figure out what is going on..She needs to break the apron strings and I hope she realizes it soon..What advice can anyone give?? The counselor said to me that she needs to come in for counseling, but how can I get her to go when I can't even talk to her?? How long does this "angry stage" last????