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2long, that is 2 funny... hope you told her no more favors... Yea, that was better.. great choice
What ARE they thinking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Or should I say NOT Thinking...<p>I feel like sending my stbxw a e-mail back and telling her that I have reconsidered the situation and I that her husband is now willing to pay to have her tubes tied so that she can have unprotected sex with her boyfriend. Maybe she will thank me for being such a considerate husband and good person.
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davepr:<p>I just remembered another one!<p>Just after D-day, when I still hadn't learned much about As, My W said:<p>"It was an addiction."<p>When I reminded her of this recently, in context of why she needed to sever contact with OM and TELL him that's what she was doing, she said:<p>"That's not what I said. I said it was LIKE an addiction."<p>!!!!!!!!!!!! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img]

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"Karl in MN" mentioned there is still lots of fog here in MN. Karl, my wife and I both work in MN and live in WI...so I concur with your statement.<p>Something I don't thing I mentioned is that 4 or 5 of my W's co-workers/friends are also going through divorces or separations. My W would always tell me how upset she was that her friends could do this and she even tried to convince her best friend to go back to her husband. When I reminded her of that, her answer was "this is different". <p>I'm trying to keep humor in my life. Today a co-worker was telling me that Britney Spears was caught smoking despite the fact she does advertising for the anti-smoking campaign. I said, "what a hypocrite. That would be like my wife doing an ad for Fidelity". [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] Thanks again for all the help and support.

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djw:<p>"When I reminded her of that, her answer was "this is different". "<p>Phenomenal. Truly, phenomenal!

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