Dave: I have been away from this post for a few days, so I am very happy that things have taken a turn for the best for you and your family. Still be careful though. Are you sure that the OM is history? Keep up with the good work.<p>Have a good holiday.

Hi Petvet, Hope you are enjoying the long weekend.
I truly believe OM is history, W told me that it was the biggest mistake and learning lession of her life. She also told me that if I could of just left her alone in the begginning she believes that she would of figured this all out sooner, anyway, guess it doesn't matter now, I believe she is back for good and OM is history. She went to the beach this weekend with her girlfriend, she spent the night, on the couch, at my house. She left early Saturday morning, she woke me up and told me she loved before she left, that felt good but I know we have alot of work ahead of us, rebuilding trust is going to be a long uphill battle but I know we can to do.
Take care,
Dave

Dave: I am really happy for you.

Thanks Petvet, I really hope things can work out for you and for Wallace. The only advise that I can give is be very patient, my W affair started almost 1 year ago and we have two false recoveries, it is a very long process. Plan B seemed to be what did it for me, Plan A showed her the changes I had made and Plan B showed her what she would be missing, it seemed to work in this case but as we know not all marriages can be saved. I truly believe most all A will die, it is just a matter of time so hang in there, it will get better one way or the other. In the end you will be a better, stonger person and you will find true happiness with or without you WS. Keep up a good Plan B and hang in there, I will be around and following your posts.
Recovery is not an easy process either, alteast this time my W is not having the bad withdraws from the OM that she had the first 2 times, that was not easy to deal with. We have a long road ahead of us, it is not easy to forgive everthing she has done and I will never forget it.
Take care,
Dave

Dave,

I'm really glad to hear of the progrees you are making. W, appears to be wanting her M back.

It is going to be a long road, but if you stay with what your doing, I think your M will have a good chance of thriving. It also helps OM is out of the picture (big time).

I as well had a number of false reconciliations... all for not. Be careful, always be aware, and never take anything for granted.

Have a good trip to Germany.

Wallace