Am I just fooling myself that she being my "one and only" is enough to overcome that feeling that "I deserve better."
At our age of 34, and W 33, I think we're both still immature, despite having 2 kids.
We seem to be both "content" with life now that we've grown apart, and taken for granted the love we used to have.<p>How should I prepare myself to look into the possibility of divorce, and to come to that point of whether it's a valid option instead of working on the marriage? How do I share this finding to my W?

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by My_2nd_Thoughts:
<strong>Am I just fooling myself that she being my "one and only" is enough to overcome that feeling that "I deserve better."</strong><hr></blockquote><p>Yes. It's not enough that your wife is your "one and only". If you want to regain feelings of love, it's going to take work.<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr><strong>How should I prepare myself to look into the possibility of divorce, and to come to that point of whether it's a valid option instead of working on the marriage? How do I share this finding to my W?</strong><hr></blockquote><p>First, do everything possible to make your marriage work. This site is designed to help you do that. Only after you have given it your best wholehearted effort will you be in a position to consider the possibility of divorce without facing the likelihood of regret.<p>One of the "safest" ways to broach the subject of your concerns about your marriage is with the aid of a marriage counselor.