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To Thinker...
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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>I have considered it when I found out my WH was having an affair. Then I considered it 5 months later when I found out it was a physical affair and my WH and I had sex during the time of discovery of affair, and then when he told me 5 months later he had sex with her.
I have considered it now because I filed for divorce, and WH has filed for divorce.
I feel like a loser, no other comment.
<hr></blockquote><p>You do realize that snl's affair was all about him...don't you?<p>If you're not on meds, please go to the doctor immediately. I know you have been thru a lot and they will help you go thru this stressful time.<p>Don't consider this (suicide) an option---think of your children.
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I'll second that... understanding some of what you must be feeling, also having been married to one of this worlds great pretenders. They really tie you up in knots and make you believe that you're ALWAYS wrong, no matter what. <p>I'm so sorry you're feeling this way, Thinker. I'll be praying for you.<p>Peace,
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Just read the Thinker filed thread. I am in a confused state, and SNL is so uncaring, and demanding me to do this and that. Telling me my lawyer is out for money, and I guess his lawyer is perfect. I can't stand this any more.
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#726651 05/11/02 08:31 AM
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Thinker,<p>I'm sure you are confused and miserable now. But I think you are too wrapped up in SNL. You have to move ahead for yourself. SNL is obviously self-serving (as many of us are) in his actions and words. He has obviously left the marriage at this point and you have to pick up and carry on for your own sake.<p>ALL lawyers want your money...that's why they charge. You know that old saying 'the best defense is a good offense'. Maybe SNL is trying to make it easier by undermining your confidence (an old trick) and making you hesitant in your actions.<p>IMO, I think you should talk to SNL as little as possible and let your lawyer handle the rest.
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Very good point on "best defense is a good offense". Hope we don't let ourselves be thrown off balance by someone else's actoins.\<p>Good advice, too, I thought to let a 3rd party handle issues of conflict.<p>Sorry to hear about the pain. Just wanted to drop in and offer support.

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