Hi CJ, If my wife was repented yes I would take her back, however there are behaviors she would have to display to know she was serious, most In the area's of where trust were violated she would have to walk me through trust again, such as computer use time, cellphone bills, no secret email accounts, establishing accountability of overtime at work, me meeting her male friends they would have to respect our marriage,she would have to learn ETHICS, US counseling and read material that pertain to building a solid relationship..<p>AT this point she's only acknowledged 2 A's of many and says there was nothing wrong with the others, such as having conversations and making arrangements to sleep with a married womans husband, thats innocent stuff to her. My point of it she can't see is " I say you should have never had a strange married man in the picture in the first place that I knew nothing about never the less talking to him about jumping in bed!" This day she still can't see whats wrong with this?? very frustrating....<p>I feel at this point until she gets out there and gets hammered by reality she may think about coming back, she at this point thinks divorce is a laughing matter. She wants that single feeling again with her old maiden name back and do as she pleases, with anyone.<p>She said the other day...when people are young they fornicate, mess up and move on, then its over....She said the same way it is when you were once married, you do Adultery, sex , mess up and you move on..you go to your next marriage and all is fine....At this point I'm thinking I guess we'll see with her, she has it all figured out.<p>I believe If she should come back at that time she will be a broken woman in need of repair needing everything I have to offer. Until then at this point she's arrogant and decietful. One thing I do know, she's having an awful wrestling match with God right now and God always wins.
