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#726880 05/12/02 05:07 PM
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Hello everyone - I was reccomended to this site by someone who is experiencing a divorce, and he said he found the people here very helpful.<p>My question is - and still learning the lingo - my H left me about 1 1/2 yrs ago - I am still finding myself caught up in so much jealousy - jealous over the home he lives in, over the ease at which he seems to have forgotten me and the life we created, the OW...<p>Any suggestions on how to learn to get over it all... <p>I am ready to move on, and would love to find that special someone, but I feel this jealousy really holds me back.

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Welcome allyo...<p>There is a post of general welcome I wish to share with you... [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img] <p>It has a lot of quick links to many of the most important MB sites...
Click here ==> General Welcome for All New Builders(Newbies)<p>About your post...<p>I take it your divorce is final...
... if it is... you can still learn much from all of these forums.<p>As far as healing (especially the jealousy)...
...learn to forgive. It's the healthiest way to move on!<p>Here is a list of books to consider:
  1. [b]The Art of Forgiving :[/b] When You Need to Forgive and Don't Know How by Lewis B. Smedes
  2. [b]Forgive and Forget [/b]: Healing the Hurts We Don't Deserve by Lewis B. Smedes
  3. [b]The Choosing to Forgive Workbook[/b] by Les Carter, Frank Minirth
<p> [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Jim / NSR

#726882 05/12/02 08:13 PM
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Hello Allyo,<p>I don't really have any suggestions for you, for I am new here as well.<p>I am not new to the situation that you are feeling however. <p>I wish I had the magic answer you are looking for.<p>If anyone wishes to give some suggestions though, it would be nice. I know I could use some helpful insights on how to cope with all the feelings of rejection, low self esteem, etc.<p>Glad you posted, <p>Wallace


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