White stains in painties happen - women have "normal" secretions you know...

I realize that H99. It is just that in my fragile state of mind these things pop into my head. It also did not help that last Monday while she was telling me that she wanted a divorce that she had had sexual feelings for a 23 y.o. that she met while away in training for a month. I did flat out ask her if anything happened, and she said of course not "he is 23 and I am 37". I even found a card that this guy gave her that said "out of all the people she would be the one he missed the most" Love XXXX! This guy even gave her a velvet painting which she had me hang on our wall. She has told me she has not had contact with him since they graduated and I kinda believe her. This guy works in another facility luckily for me, so my spouse does not see him regularly. I tell you H99, I am a basket case lately.

Well that does seem rather suspicious to me. However, a young guy doesn't always know what is inappropriate interaction with a married woman...??<p>I'm the wrong person to be talking to. I put on rose colored glasses and would excuse anyone's errors.<p>My husband and I have not had sex for six months now, and I must confess that without any attention, desire, affection, or sex from him, I began to feel more attracted to other men. I think that it is a natural consequence of neglect. You need to give your wife all the attention and affection that she will allow you to give.

Thamks H99,
I do remember being that young, dumb and full of ---. if you follow what I mean. the thing is that I can account for all of her time yesterday except about 45 minutes. do not know what to think. Guess time will tell. She even has asked me to make a video of the graduation ceremonies so she can give his parents a copy. I guess the age difference is a big thing. my wife is a very outgoing and freindly person anyways, I figure she could pretty much have any guy she wanted, but that is justmy viewpoint. I am working very very hard to meet her needs. I help around the house, do not yell when upset at the kids. I also have been rubbing her feet and back for the last three nights in a non-sexual way. We have not had relations since last monday, but her parent have been here so that may be a reason. If she does have sex with me, how should I read that. For the most part if I have not met her needs then no intimacy. I just do not know. she gets up around 4:00 am to get ready for work and does not get to bed until 10:00 so her being tired does not help.