AS POSTED BEFORE, MY MOTHER-IN-LAW HAS A TRAILER THAT MY HUSBAND SIGNED FOR SO HE COULD LET HIS MOTHER HAVE IT. WELL SHE STILL ISNT MAKING THE PAYMENTS AND NOW SHE IS 2 MONTHS BEHIMD, THIS IS GETTING TO BE A REGULAR PATTERN THAT SHE IS FOLLOWING, AND IM GETTING SICK OF IT!<BR>I DONT KNOW WHETHER TO STEP MY FOOT IN, AND GIVE A PIECE OF MY MIND, OR LET MY HUSBAND TAKE CARE OF IT, WHICH NOTHING WILL GET DONE ABOUT IT.I DONT KNOW WHETHER TO TELL HER WHAT I THINK, AND WHAT MY HUSBAND DONT KNOW, WONT HURT HIM, OR MAYBE THATS WRONG OF ME TO SAY, I JUST DONT KNOW ANYMORE ON WHAT TO DO, I JUST KNOW THAT SOMETHING NEEDS TO BE DONE ABOUT IT, AND IM TIRED OF MY H BEING SCARED TO TALK TO HER, ITS TIME SOMETHING GETS DONE! EVEN THOUGH HES THE ONE THAT SIGNED AND ITS HIS MOTHER, WE ARE IN THIS TOGETHER, AND WHY SHOULD I SET BACK AND WATCH ALL OF THIS HAPPEN TO HIM, AND OUR FAMILY, IM INVOLVED WHETHER HE LIKES IT OR NOT, SO WHAT DO I DO???<BR>I HAVE GONE TO THE HOME PAGE AND READ ON BASIC CONCEPTS, AND I RELIZE WHAT I HAVE TO DO IN MY MARRIAGE DEALING WITH MYSELF AND MY H, BUT SOMEONE ELSE IS INVOLVE HERE, SO NOW WHAT?<BR>I GUESS IM JUST WANTING SOME INPUT, ON HOW OTHER PEOPLE WOULD HANDLE SOMETHING LIKE THIS, I NEED TO KNOW WHAT MY THOUGHTS ARE, WHETHER IM ON THE RIGHT TRACK, OR WAY OFF.<BR>PLEASE GIVE SOME ADVISE, IM LOST!<BR>

Since no one wiser has responded yet, I'll throw my 2 cents in...<P>You need to talk (calmly, lovingly; no LBs) to your H about this. The problem affects you both, so the two of you need to discuss how to handle it...If he is a bit "spineless" when it comes to taking on his mother, maybe the two of you could talk to her together. I'm afraid if you end up doing it without him, you'll end up being cast as the bad guy.<P>What is her deal? Any idea why she doesn't pay?<P>