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I have a question for all 2nd spouses or those who are seeing a divorced person with children.<p>If your spouse lived out of state, and saw their children where your former spouse lived for the w/e, how would you feel if they stayed at the former spouses home? What if each time they went, you were not included? How would you feel?<p>Thanks!
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I'd be hurt...<p>have you talked to them about how it makes you feel??
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I'm new here, but i'm going to add my 2 cents, i'm the single mom with the kids, and havent dated anyone with kids BUT the table my be turned on me. I *wouldnt* have a problem with my s/o staying in the same town BUT not at her/his house that would bother me and create conflict! [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]
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I have no personal experience but I did have a friend in this situation a long time ago...her bf went up to Oklahoma to visit his kids and stayed at estranged wife's house (to save money and spend more time with the kids, of course [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] ) and swore he slept on the couch.<p>As packed his stuff to move to Oklahoma to reunite with his ex-wife, he told friend he had been sleeping with wife all along.
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