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Do you tell your spouse about the other relationships you have had while seperated? We are in the beginning stages of reconciling our marriage because we realize we did not try everything we could before we became seperated.
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I would say YES!! Be completely open and honest about them..that way you can work on your marriage based on that honesty..to help build the trust that you will both need to make the marriage work..<p>if you tell little bits and pieces now and then little bits and pieces later..you will begin to wonder what else aren't they telling??<p>and if they hear it from someone else later then they'll wonder why didn't YOU tell me this before?? what are you hiding?? and the trust your trying to build is shot out the window..
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