Hi M, I know this is togh place to be in, but he is definitly confused.....He said he noticed you changes for the past 2 years, OH boy, he's watching you..."the one thing I can see the most is the love and dedication that you have for God and our children".... he still loves you...Only because OW is in picture does he say those things like he does resisting....stating love you, not in love with you, can't feel love for you, no passion....don't believe it, its a lie, trust me.<p>A continued strong Plan A and B and prayer would reel him in, why? Because he talks about how beautiful you are and how wonderful you are....Well this poses a problem for him to your advantage, check it out...<p>1. He is miserable with OW
2. He still comes over your house seeking favors, who else would pamper him but you?
3. If he saw you moving on and didn't need him, kinda shut him off a little, that would scare him because, OW is not in the plans for the future, he's tired of the torment...
4. If he Divorced you or came close and thought another guy was interested this would throw him into a jealous fit....because he depends on you....OW is shaky
5. Most of he's in wrestling match with God, he's praying and Gods dealing with him, he said God is showing him the way, wow. Its definitly in a spiritual battle thats going on..Its not so much the commitment to you, but its the commitment to the Lord he is struggling with, you represnt whats right, so he ask himself, can I do whats right unto her as unto the Lord.....to do whats right means leaving OW..<p>He still wants to come around and be pampered...I'D start not making myself so available and a little hard to reach, cause him to inquire a little more....But keep praying!!!<p>Please,Please i'm saying find some guy to make him jealous, you'll mess yourself up for life....but there are things you can do in Plan B that causes him to realize he may be on the outside looking in....no more easy access..<p>Quote:
Letter from WS:
I agree with you, you are a wonderful woman and I know all about your beautifull qualities. In the past 2 years you had an incredible improvement
in your attitude and behaviour, the one the I can see the most is the love and dedication that you have for God and our children.<p>I don't want to hold you for hostage, neither play games with you. I can't tell you what to do, I moved on with my life but I find myself worse than before..<p>He has not moved on, how can you move on but moving further into misery..AS he said he is lost, he's caught between decisions, Just back off a little, Plan B, he knows you're kind and loving and changed through Prayer and Plan A he see's it and confessed it, therefore don't worry about having to be stern a little, thats to your advantage, you have more to work than you know.......Take Care
