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My wife and I have been married for four years. I was far from the emotional support I should have been. She filed for divorce two weeks ago. She says I am still her best friend, but she does not have the passion any longer. She states we are too young to have a passionless marriage. We share so much I find it hard to beleive we can't rebuild. I am wondering if anyone out there has been through this and was able to rebuild.
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Joined: Nov 2001
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Bunches of us have been through this and rebuilt. I think you should read everything on this site...and the book His Needs, Her Needs. <p>I suggest doing the Emotional Needs questionnaire if your wife is agreeable and is willing to try to work on this. Read about the Love Bank and Love Busting. <p>It is possible, even if you do divorce, to get those feelings back.
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Joined: Jul 2000
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DAS, You may want to find a list of indications of an affair. I too was dumbfounded as to my XW's behavior, saw many sign on the affair list before I knew they were signs of an affair.<p>It seems like 90 -95% of the folks here are dealing with someone on the "cheatin' side of town".<p>Just my 2 cents. Keep reading the posts here. Good luck!!!!
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