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We have been divorced for almost 3 years. Now we are trying to figure out how we can be back together and not repete the mistakes. We haven't made the "move" to be in the same house because we both want it to work. Can someone please point us to some help? <BR>
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by GG4you4170:<BR><B>We have been divorced for almost 3 years. Now we are trying to figure out how we can be back together and not repete the mistakes. We haven't made the "move" to be in the same house because we both want it to work. Can someone please point us to some help? </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Dr. Harley's course work would be wonderful. It's like someone opened a window for me. Just in two days, I've implemented a few of the principles outlined. What would have been outrages and fights a week ago end up with my husband yelling three sentences, and only throwing one thing! I assertively (not loudly) said said, "David, I love you and I want to discuss this with you, but can we please take about 1/2 hour time out and come back to it?" He was in shock!!! About an hour later, he came downstairs and we talked and resolved. <P>WE HAVE NEVER DONE THAT BEFORE!!!!!<P>While you're both living at different places, I would definitely consider you both taking this program to heart and working on the questionnaires and all the resources it has to offer.<P>Good luck in your efforts and in your life choices.<P>Katherine <BR>
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I printed off the Love Busters Questionaire and am going to send him a copy. (We are 600 miles apart right now) Can you point me to the beginning? Where do I start reading? I have read some of the things here but still don't know what "Chapter 1" is.
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Get the book, <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6000_bookstore.html" TARGET=_blank>His Needs Her Needs</A>. Or any of the others you think looks appropriate.<P>------------------<BR>A true friend is one who not only is willing to love us the way we are, but is able to leave us better than he found us.
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