I feel great. Even tough I'm on my way to the final date for the D : 7/26. I feel soooo good. It's been a long hard two years of pain, rejection and suffering with my WSs A, and I am finnaly over it.<p>I had a date with a beautiful woman Saturday night, and she made me feel so good. She was complimenting me and saying "I can't beieve your W left you, you are so nice and so cute" etc etc.<p>After two years of wondering whats wrong with me, I am now wondering whats wrong with her. How can she leave a great guy like me. Her loss .....<p>I am so fired up. I'm turning 40 Saturday, and I guess life can begin again at 40. MBers ,I hope this message finds you well, and that you are able to take some encouragement from it. <p>Remember , there is always tomorrow, and it can be a bright tomorrow for you with or without the WS. For the longest time I could not see past my marriage, and it's been so hard.<p>Free at last!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am the man. I am good looking. I am desireable, and I deserve to be happy. I forgot how sweet women can be. "I feel good , da da da da dad da dat, I knew that I would now"<p>One more thing. The demise of my marriage WAS NOT I repeat WAS NOT all my fault!!! and I gave my marriage all that I had. Two years of my life I have waited , barely living, just surviving, and the waiting is over.<p>A happier time will come to you too. Just be patient and work on you.

David: What a fantatic post! Congratulations on your attitude. I, too, am heading for a D. Husband signs papers tomorrow. I am a bit depressed right now but I hope to have the same outlook someday as you. I have the fear that I will never find anyone again. You have given me encouragement. Happy Birthday. 40 is young!!!

Congratulations on your re-found feelings. You sound like you are in the clouds. I don't want to bring you down at all, but just remember to be realistic and realize these feelings may change with circumstances and be ready for it, knowing this is normal and if you do get down, you will get up again.

Dear David87<p>I am glad for you....the same thing happened to me...and it does feel good..I hope life continues to treat you well. Pat (And I am 3 years from 50 [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

Thanks everyone for the feedback,<p>
We all deserve to be happy, BS, WS, OM, OW : everyone. People are just groping in the dark for happiness. Of course an A is a bad choice. But those lessons must be learned first hand , not taught. You will be happy again , just wait.<p>I know not to jump in to anything. As a matter of fact I have not been with anyone else yet. Its just the fliting and the attraction the boy/girl thing that BSs are denied , often for sooooo long, that It just feels so good to be someones number one again.<p>Hoping you all are well.

David, <p>I know exactly how you feel at this moment! I'm there too! Nuff said!!!!!!!! Keep on keeping on!<p>
Regards<p>RN