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1.75 days.

And YES, that's a decimal between the 1 and the 7! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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my h and I have been seperated for 5 weeks and we have had sex this past Saturday and the last 3 Sunday's. Heck that is about all we had when we lived togeter. Whats up with that????? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />

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It has been only a few days, but I understand what some of you are saying about the feelings involved. Sometimes I have felt that we only "get together" to relieve the stress, yet there has been times I think it has been used by H to punish me??? Only thinking of his feelings. Also, had a BOB once and H thought it was just like another Man, made me throw it out--I'm going shopping tomorrow.

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I guess I'm going to go to my mantle and polish my five consecutive "Golden Forearm" awards..
Sounds like you've been polishing more than your awards! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

1297 days +/- a day or two.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Chris (CA123):
<strong>k,
I guess I'm going to go to my mantle and polish my five consecutive "Golden Forearm" awards..
Sounds like you've been polishing more than your awards! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

1297 days +/- a day or two.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">How about nothing since September 2001?
Do I qualify to be on here?? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

BUT the best of it is I did it VOLUNTARILY, after being rebuffed for many many months after her affair, THEN finding out that she was still in contact with the [censored] after 18months. That was the end.

Ihave a very very good personal friend now by the name of Madame de Palme
ALWAYS willing and attentive, NEVER moans or complains, is ALWAYS attentive as long as I am awake <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

"She" gets quite creative too sometimes <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Doesnt beat the REAL thing but an excellent second.

What else does a man do when he is stuck with a neurotic wife that has Borderline Personality Disorder?

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by kevan:
<strong>[QUOTE]Originally posted by Chris (CA123):
[qb]Ihave a very very good personal friend now by the name of Madame de Palme
ALWAYS willing and attentive, NEVER moans or complains, is ALWAYS attentive as long as I am awake <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Ya "de Palme" used to be a friend of mine and now everytime I try to interest her or sister in having some fun they both go to sleep.....

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Chris---you kill me, man...

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This morning!

Last night!

The night before that!

And the night before that!

And a bunch more times lately.

But SO lives a long way away and was here for several days. Before this, it had been months!

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by bleubelle:
<strong>This morning!

Last night!

The night before that!

And the night before that!

And a bunch more times lately.

</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Did I forget to mention that anyone who has "gotten" any in the last 5 months can kiss my @$$....... Just kidding you are the ones who keep hope alive for us "born again virgins".....

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Sex? What sex?

Sad to say its been about 8 or 9 months...unless you don't count "sex with the Ex!"

If that's the case, then it's been years!

Yeah, I'm one of those pathetic people who kept having sex with the Ex for many months after the divorce.

Is that a bad thing?

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Come on, LH! You're just jealous of the lucky ones around here. But I know what you mean. After all, I went 5 years, 3 months, and 2 weeks <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> - or something like that. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> And you have the nerve to call yourself a born-again virgin.

This Madame LePalme must get around a lot, because my x used to spend a lot of time with her, apparently. In the shower so I wouldn't know. Why would any healthy man do that when he had an eager wife in bed with him every night?

Disqusting! Still <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> about some things.

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Cinder- my XH used to do it SEVERAL times a day (sex addict??), didn't bother him at all if I walked in on him (kept right at it, just stared at me or ignored me, whatever), apparently meant to make me jealous?! He'd say it was easier than approaching me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Walking into my house to the familiar drone of a porn video in the VCR and then-H sprawled naked on the couch didn't phase me at all. Unfortunately it didn't seem to be enough for him though. He decided to use all the BOB's he'd bought for me. And leave them, uh, unclean, lying around the bedroom. S-I-C-K. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

It took me years to buy a new BOB after that!!

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This is a trip! Good one Bill. Well, it's been a lllllllllllaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnnngggggg time, is all I know....

Since HE really was into it for me, maybe Aug 00

For him, there have been a few occasions since then - very few and they would qualify for mercy #u(ks, for sure...

Ciao!

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The good Lord willing and the creek don't rise. I got some recently!!!

(and it DID rise, blew out both lanes of I80 and it is still shut down, must be a sign)

We got married 7/10/02, let's see, that was day before yesterday.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Can I still hang out with you guys??? Please, please, please???

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And we didn't get an invitation to the wedding.

And we didn't get a chance to catch the bouquet.

And we aren't getting any activity.

Sigh.

Oh, well. I wish you all the happiness in the world. And I say you can hang out with us as long as you wish.

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Ragamuffin,

Congrats!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Of course you can still hang out! I do! LOL

Mitzi <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Congratulations Gayle,

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I must be in bad shape.

I was in the hardware store recently. Looking at faucets for kitchen sink. I wanted the single handle kind. The faucets were mounted on a board that began at eye-level and slanted up.

Some, not all, but some of those handles looked just like chrome-plated penises. (oh, can I say that word here?) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I will never look at a kitchen faucet the same way again. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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This Morning, and - Last Night..... in the backyard! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Plan A has been very, very, good for us! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

But before you get jealous, let me tell you that we have gone as long as 6 months without and on average did it 1-2x per month in the last 5 years. We are now making up for lost time!

I hope the drought will end soon for the rest of you!

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Two months ago. I dated a woman very briefly, but she moved because of a job and we decided not to do the long distance thing. Damn I miss her. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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