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I'm just curious if the type of behavior that my ex husband is having is common. Since the finalization of our divorce he has suddenly vanished and i haven't heard from him. Our divorce was final the end of may, and he lives in a different state. I tried calling once to talk to him about our baby but his response was to never call there again ever..It's crazy we have a baby together and he is treating the situation like it never happend. Is this normal for the ex to just try and act like nothing ever happend our marriage, divorce and us being parents to a baby??..Our son just turned 1 the end of june..Is the ex doing this out of pain because if he keeps in touch he brings back the pain of what happend??..This is the only logical reason i can think of for his behavior. Any ideas?..Has this happend to anyone??...
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I'm soon to be "D" and my WW did the same act as well.
My take on it, and I'm only explaining my opinion concerning my situation which may or may not apply to you is this.
Married 23yrs with 3 kids. She is out and about... and who knows where. Has not contacted her family in almost 3 months and counting.
I beleive that she wants to pretend that she has never been married or had kids.
I have heard from other people that she is looking for a rich man with no kids.
She is a lost soul, searching for a lost paradise. Will she find it...who knows.
Your X maybe trying to do the same thing.
Stay Strong!
Wallace
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