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Hey all, this is kinda funny and kinda sad...
We had a problem between the boytoy and my oldest daughter today. Well I went and picked her up and talked about the issues.
Then my X shows up at my office talking about how I took his "authority" away. To which I replied that a shack up has no authority over my girls. Well Blah Blah Blah the conversation went on and it turned to "morality".
She said that they were taking this relationship slow and it's been going on since before we broke up, DUH!!!!! Therefore, since she's "DOING IT RIGHT" this time, I should respect and "ACCEPT" (her word not mine) their relationship as moral.
To which I replied that it's her relationship and acceptance has nothing to do with anything and if she's seeking it from me then she's seeking it from the wrong place.
So let's have a quick recap. X screws around with OM, gets divorced, in the process of the divorce are right after has OM#2 and does them both for a while. Then OM#1 gets "protective" and tells her to dump #2. Next they shack up, totally disrupting the children's lives again and I'm suppose to think that's "Moral"?
I'm confused......
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probably makes perfect sense in fog-land.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Sorry you're going through all that Bill... sounds like you handled it great today though.
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Bill - IG never ceases to amaze me. Well, at least you have confirmation to what you already knew. Sorry it had to come at the cost of a problem between your daughter and boytoy.
Keep fighting for custody of those girls. You are doing a great job as always.
((((((((((((Bill) Made sure I didn't hurt your cracked rib.
Take care of yourself buddy.
Michele
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By now you should expect her to say anything to justify "her world". She cannot see the through the forest of her own lies and immoral behavior. To her there is nothing wrong with the "test driving" she is doing. I just wish the girls didn't have to see it. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> just keep yourself on the straight road and keep it safe for them!!!
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