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#731396 07/16/02 11:52 AM
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Ok, Folks. This is as much for me as it is for others, because I have been guilty of misspellings and poor usage myself. However, here are a few spelling and usage errors that have been bugging me:

Their and There: He went there. Their daughter is on the swim team.

Affect and Effect: I have affected an English accent on occasion. The drug had a bad effect on my system.

To, Too and Two: I went to the divorce attorney. My wife went, too. We two went to the divorce attorney.

I have made my own mistakes for sure! Please, can anyone else think of other common errors of usage and spelling?

<small>[ July 16, 2002, 11:53 AM: Message edited by: c++_guy ]</small>

#731397 07/16/02 11:54 AM
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The one that kills me is the improper use of "I" and "me". There is a manager at my job who continually says "bring it to Joe or I"----I want to stand up and scream 'JOE OR ME!!! JOE OR ME!!!'

People just can't seem to grasp that 'and I' is not ALWAYS correct.

#731398 07/17/02 12:03 AM
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This is funny. I was just griping yesterday about the widespread misuse of 'effect' and 'affect'. It is rampant.
I also hate lay and lie. Chickens lay. People lie. "I am going to lie down." "Please lay the book on the table."

#731399 07/17/02 12:16 AM
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"Separation" not "seperation"
"Judgment" not "judgement"

Just my two peeves!!

#731400 07/17/02 12:36 AM
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To more: (ha ha, just being funny C_++!)

"I COULD care less."
and
"Irregardless."

#731401 07/16/02 01:35 PM
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I feel that . . . .

what does that feel like?

<small>[ July 16, 2002, 01:37 PM: Message edited by: WhenIfindthetime ]</small>

#731402 07/16/02 03:24 PM
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Here is one more........"Different than..." is incorrect. The correct forms are "Different from" and "Other than".

#731403 07/16/02 03:35 PM
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"Judgement" is an ex^H^Haccepted variant of "Judgment".

I find the ac^H^Hexpression "I could care less" tw^Ho be occasionally useful when I wish too^H convey the message that I do not care much about something. In other words, to be perfectly precise, I actually could care less than I do about an issue, but I don't care enough to argue about it.

Fou^Hr su^Home reason, the conflation that bothers me most is "loose" vs. "lose".

#731404 07/16/02 03:38 PM
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"It happened by accident." Accidentally? Incidentally? What?

This is going to be a case of "those who are without sin should throw the first stone", lol. I just don't want anyone correcting my spelling or grammar. Whenever I'm using a word I'm not sure of, I always open up Word and check the spelling. I try to take advantage of all the tools at my disposal not to look silly. I'm not always successful.

The other thing to remember is that there are a lot of people here who do not speak English primarily. Thank God for Foster's commercials to explain Aussie idioms to the American audience.

#731405 07/16/02 03:42 PM
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Or, hitting close to many of our homes, "It just didn't work out" as opposed to "One or both of us just didn't work hard enough."

#731406 07/16/02 04:00 PM
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I could care less if he/she leaves.

This means you DO care some because you could care less than you actually do.

The proper phrase is, "I couldn't care less."

It is a mute point.
Proper is a moot point.

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All of you have been reading my posts. O.K., I confess. LOL
Stay Strong!
Wallace

#731408 07/16/02 05:24 PM
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My pet peeve is the misuse of advice and advise, because it is a very common word at this site, and so it happens all the time. Correctly used below:

I need some advice.
My advice to you is....

I advise you to.....
Please advise me.....

Also the incorrect use of the appostrophe. It is used to denote abbreviation or ownership, thus:

It's = it is
let's = let us

Karen's = belonging to her
dog's kennel = the kennel belonging to the dog (Edited <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> cos I am a doofus - see Hanora's post below:D )

Also plurals can get my goat.

trees, not tree's
cars not car's

And the use of your and you're

Your dog = for possession of object
You're a good friend = abbreviated you are

My take on misspellings is that there are some international differences. Certainly that is the case with me, being Australian:

behavior = behaviour
neighbor = neighbour

You get the idea.

Now the could care less is another thing I agree with, and every time I read "I could care less" it jars. Chris is correct when he says that if we say it like that, it means we DO care, and we COULD care a little less. Saying "I couldn't care less" makes the meaning much more obvious.

I have a few words I continually struggle with, so I am NOT perfect, by any means. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Okay, getting out of teacher mode now, and stepping off the soap box....

NEXT!!!!!

<small>[ July 16, 2002, 07:38 PM: Message edited by: Nina too ]</small>

#731409 07/16/02 05:41 PM
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How about taking "a different tact" or "the wrong tact", when what is really meant is a tack.

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<small>[ January 26, 2005, 02:56 PM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>

#731411 07/16/02 07:31 PM
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ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

You are so right!!!!!!!!!

AND it is one of my big peeves!!!

Well, my excuse is that I had only just got out of bed when I did that post, LOL!

HERS HERS HERS HERS HERS!!!!

Got it now!!!!!!!!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

(slinking away now to the doofus corner)

#731412 07/16/02 07:32 PM
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Going back to edit that now....I am soooooooooo embarrassed, hehehehehe!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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<small>[ January 26, 2005, 02:57 PM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>


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